When Kids Misbehave - Parenting Tips

Clear Mesages
Clear Messages Lead to Positive Behavior

In order to give clear messages, you must first watch what your child does or says, then clearly tell your child what was done correctly or incorrectly. It’s like giving and instant replay of their behavior. Use words that you know your child will understand. For younger children, use short sentences and easily understood words.

Giving clear messages helps to describe who is being praised, whose behavior is being corrected, what just happened, what was done well and what needs to be improved or changed.

How you give messages also is very important. Have your child look at you. It’s more likely that he or she will hear what you say. You should look at your child as well. This allows you to see his or her reaction and helps improve communication. Use a tone of voice that fits the situation. Eliminate as many distractions as possible. And try to position yourself so that you are at eye level with your child.