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Developing good conversation skill is one of the most helpful skill for children to learn.

Ever since Dee and Randy Smith's children were toddlers, they made a nightly practice of including their youngsters in conversation at the dinner table, in the car and around other adults. They taught their children appropriate topics of discussion, how to politely join in the conversation, and not to interrupt others, among other important skills. Today, the Smith's often receive compliments on the ability of their teenagers to engage in conversation with others in any situation.

Developing good conversation skills is one of the most helpful and most difficult skills children can acquire.

You can help your children become better conversationalists, while brushing up on your own skills at the same time. Here are some helpful exercises you and your children can do together.

Practice contributing to discussions by:

Looking at the people who are talking.
Waiting for a point in the conversation when no one else is talking to make a short, appropriate comment that relates to the topic being discussed.
Choosing words that are not offensive or confusing to others.
Giving other people a chance to talk.

Practice keeping the conversation going by:

Maintaining a relaxed but attentive posture. Nodding your head to give ongoing encouragement.
Asking follow-up questions that pertain to what the other person has just said.
Avoiding fidgeting, looking away or yawning.
Not interrupting.
Taking turns in the conversation and saying "excuse me" when interruption of others occurs.

Practice closing the conversation by:

Changing topics only when everyone appears to be finished talking about a particular issue.
Changing to a topic that somehow relates to the previous one.
Allowing everyone a chance to talk about the current topic.
Waiting for a comfortable break in the conversation to leave.