the positive things she did every day than on the negative behaviors. Within a few weeks Annie began to change her outlook and her behavior improved.

Praise is one of the most powerful tools parents can use to teach their children positive skills and help them grow emotionally.

Using praise works well when it is given in an effective manner and when you remember to use it consistently and frequently.

It's important to praise all positive behavior. Look for the good things your child does. The praise will have a significant effect on your child. Apply the 4 to 1 rule. For every negative behavior you notice and act on, find four positive behaviors or reasons to praise. It's a good way to remember to look for positive behavior.

Remember to praise the things your children already do well, improvements in their behavior and positive attempts at new skills. Show your approval by smiling and touching with hugs and kisses or pats on the back. Be sure to describe specifically what your child did well. Tell your child how good behavior helps and that it is appreciated by others.