That morning Sarah's mother tries to ease her anxieties
by reminding her that she is smart, nice and funny and
will make friends quickly. As Sarah approaches her classroom,
Sarah remembers her mother's words, takes a deep breath
and opens the door.
Everyone needs friends. They are the principal source
of happiness and hope in our lives. To some people,
making friends is easy, and to others like Sarah, it
is very difficult. All children have the capacity to
make friends, however, making friends is a skill.
By setting good examples in your life, you can help
your children learn how to make friends. Try:
- Helping them realize their own strengths.
- Having a sense of humor about yourself and your
shortcomings.
- Listening to them without criticism.
- Being kind, giving compliments, waving to a friend,
opening the door for someone.
- Being understanding of what others are going through
by showing empathy.
- Not complaining. Instead, teach your children to
accept what can't be changed by working hard to change
the things that can be changed.
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